I’m pretty proud of where I am 20 years later. And, I think I still look pretty good. That said, I will not be attending. And I am...

Sis, We Gotta Stop Letting Black Men Ruin Us – Crystal deGregory Ph.D. – Medium An open letter to black women who’ve listened to Jay-Z’s...

[ An aside: my ex is a pretty private person, and doesn’t share his business on these interwebs, which means I really don’t run a serious...

So the other day, I sent my ex a very blunt and (and in his view petty) text Now, I know it may seem petty, but I promise that there was...

I am not a relationship expert, nor do I want to be. I’m just a woman with a lot of life experience. I offer but one perspective. Let’s...

I’ve debated writing this for a while. For one, I don’t want to be messy. Secondly, I still wrote with my ex’s feelings in mind. I soon...

After a heated argument with my ex today, he likened our “friendship” to an abusive relationship. While my initial thought was, “This man...

I may lose some friends, associates, and respect over this, but I’ve got to, as Aunt Ester (Gem of the Ocean, August Wilson) suggested —...

So, I wrote this well over two years ago, in regards to the good old FWB (even after I knew he had involved himself with my ex-friend,...

Do you remember the film, The Best Man (1999)? Taye Diggs’ character, “Harper Stewart” was writing a memoir recalling past experiences...

This is a continuation of the abridged version of my pertinent relationship history. My second, and the most recent real relationship...

Without trying to wax poetic about the trials and tribulations that frame why I feel the way I do about things like love, commitment,...

Again, this is something that I wrote over two years ago, but am just now sharing publicly. You’d think that this would be the end of the...

“Intention is one of the most powerful forces there is. What you mean when you do a thing will always determine the outcome.” – Brenna...